House Guest and Fish

My house guest has departed.
While she'd been here I talked much about goals one might have, and follow, to give purpose and direction to life. She can't seem to face facts having spent much time, years in fact, flitting about with no plan for the future and no intent to make a plan, other than relying on friends to help out. She was at times moody, sometimes sitting in the room - not feeling well - just a bit of passive aggression there.
I am being harsh, as she'd been taking care of herself until last year's job loss and a very severe health issue that arose this year. I'm a firm believer in making plans, so the job loss would not have put me in such dire straights.
Now my cat can roam again in every room of the house.
There is some saying about house guests and fish after a few days.....